就在这时，一个没有腿的人经过，坐在一个附着在旧溜冰轮子的木头平板上，带着两片木头，滑过街道。 (来源：英语杂志 http://www.EnglishCN.com)

　　When Harold saw him, he had just crossed thestreet, trying toraise himself a few inches to get on the pavement. Harold’seyes methis, the disabled man said happily, “Good morning! Sr. Nicemorningweather, is not it?” At the time Harold felt a strange senseof satisfaction.He thought, I have 2 legs, he has no legs, but heis so happy, what reason do Ihave to be upset? So Harold becamemore confident, and went on happily。

　　Harold发现了他，他刚穿过街，试着把自己举高几英寸以登上人行道。他们四目相对，那个残疾人高兴地说：“早上好！早上天气真好，不是吗？”这时Harold感到一种莫名的满足。他想，他有两条腿，而他却没有腿，但他仍然开心，他又有什么理由心烦呢？所以，Harold变得更加自信，快乐地生活着。

　　7. Anxiety is everywhere

　　7. 无处不焦虑。

　　Anxiety of safety, wealth, health and anxietyof children’seducation and employment… Only a person who is carefree canbehappy。

　　担心安全、财富、健康，担心孩子的教育问题和工作……只有当一个人不焦虑时才能幸福快乐。

　　8. Too much pressure/stress

　　8. 压力过大。

　　Political pressure, pressure from work,family, emotional stress,financial stress, interpersonal pressure,psychological pressure andphysical pressure

　　政治压力，工作、家庭压力，情绪上的压力，经济压力，人际关系压力，心理和生理压力。

　　9. Standards are too high

　　9. 标准太高。

　　Using person’s own standard to demand others“If I can, why can’tyou?”

　　用自己的标准去要求他人，“我能做到，为什么你不能？”

　　Using other’s standard to demand oneself, “Ifhe can, why can’tI?”

　　用他人的标准来要求自己，“他能做到，为什么我不能？”

　　10. Not being oneself

　　10. 不能做回自己。

　　A person who becomes a good son, a goodhusband, a good father, agood friend, a good partner… but if a person cannotbecome someonethat himself/herself desires, always fighting with oneself,thenthis person has no balance, and naturally, it is difficult forhim/her to betruly happy。

　　一个人能做到好儿子，好爸爸，好朋友，好伴侣，但是如果一个人不能做到他想做到的，老是和自己斗争，那么他就平衡不了，自然很难让他自己真正快乐起来。